Saturday, May 12, 2007

5 ways my husband annoys me

Second tag also from sis, a few days ago actually. It's kinda difficult to do this tag not because I'm afraid that Eddie might read it but it's hard to find flaws in him. He's a good husband + good papa. I've been thinking for a few days and might be able to come up with some. Maybe as I write I'll be able to fill all up 10. Here goes...

1. He must wake up as late as he can, even on his day off. So I'd be the one to get up to feed breakfast to Ethan. He always say that I can wake him up earlier if I want him to do stuffs, but I'd prefer that he wake up earlier by himself voluntarily and offer help.

2. He doesn't take breakfast. If he does, it's instant noodle. He just loves instant noodles a lot and will use every opportunity to eat them. This really annoys me because everytime he cooks that as breakfast I'll be nagging him as if I'm his mother. The worse thing is that he'll just keep quiet and ignores me (like I'm his mother).

3. He's quite picky in what he eats and he doesn't like western food. He's a typical 'Cinapek' and worships rice. He's not the adventurous type, hard to get him to try new food. Once he found something he likes, that's the only thing he will order from that place. Everytime when we go out for lunch he would ask me what to have for lunch, then I would say this place (that I know he would prefer not to go) and he would give me the shocking "Har?!" sound, like "Must we?". With him it's always laksa or beef noodle for lunch, rice for dinner.

4. He's impatient. He doesn't like it when I take my time to shop. With him, he can just go into a shop, sees what he wants and grab it, no need to try. With me, go into many shops, pick many things, try on, choose colour, maybe buy one. Most of the time I ended up buying nothing because he started to get impatient and I don't like to be pressured. But I hardly shop for myself these days, only for Ethan. Another example is he can't wait for the computer to finish loading after it's turned on to start opening programs. Of course then it will take longer time to load and then he'll say to me, "Baby, hang jor" (hang already).

5. He must sleep late, like after midnight, and he must watch a show before he sleeps, it's like his sleeping pill. He's saying that he loses a lot of time if he sleeps early. The thing is, he doesn't want to wake up early.

Okay, that's it. Can't think of anymore. There are other little things but they don't annoy me as much for me to put them up here. I would put smoking up there but he quits already finally. That is also because he wanted Foxtel (satellite tv) and since our expenses are quite high I asked him to choose between that and cigarettes. Our expenses are still high, but at least he's healthier by a lot now. He pretty much is a great guy and I don't really have much complain about him. I'm so lucky to have found him. If he's reading this, "Baby, I love you!"

5 comments:

G said...

fuiyooo so romantik one u, couldn't find 10 flaws :P that's really good! u've a great hubby alright. i'm like ur hubs, i'm very cina ah lian when it comes to food, i love rice and dislike western food mostly coz i dont eat red meat + cheese. i eat the same thing over and over and not get sick of it :D

LiL'deviL said...

g: Haha, my husband and I are like almost opposite (opposites do attract) in our food preference. He's totally into Asian food (he also dislikes dairy food like milk, cheese, yoghurt) and I'm not saying that I'm totally into western food but because I've been have Asian food for so long already a change once in a while would be nice. You really so like my husband! hehehe...

Sweetpea said...

5 only meh? sure no more or sked to complain? hah, i have to satay a bit here... anyway, good that u love his 'flaws'..if u read mine, i just found my number 10! he bungkus himself nicely under the doona and i always have to pull it from him! hah!

Angeleyes said...

wow! perfect hubby lar liddat!
even mine near to perfect I can list 10! LOL

LiL'deviL said...

sweetpea: Got lar, but it's not really that big-a-deal. And then those are like his corner, it's like he cooks for me and there are some things that I don't like in the cooking process but I don't wanna say much.

Haha, now that you mention it, Eddie does that with our quilt sometimes, and other times he just pulls and pulls until the quilt is upside down in the morning.

angeleyes: Nobody is perfect. I accept his flaws as he accept mine. He probably can list more flaws in me, but he doesn't do that. It's not a 'husband' thing.